Hello Michael W,I have not experienced caring for somebody with dementia but friends here and family abroad have. It is depressing, distressing as well as exhausting. Particularly so if you do not have much guidance on "best practices".Personally, I would prefer a Scandinavian style of care than the American one. Yes, the Scandinavians pay enormous amounts in taxes (eye-wateringly so?) but the services they get are amazing. As you say, social care needs proper funding. Privatising it, in part or totally, is not the answer. I am not left-wing by any stretch of the imagination. But I believe, very strongly, in fairness. There are a myriad of jobs that do not pay very well, particularly in the last decade or so. What about nurses, teachers, emergency services personnel, armed forces even road sweepers and rubbish collectors, to name but a few though representative jobs, do they not deserve looking after in old age?
Ivonne Holliday ● 1378d